We are all going through constant obstacles in life. From one day to another, there is always something, heartache, work, family, disappointments the list is endless. This is never going to change that is life. However, we can use some survival methods to make it through all of these obstacles and still remain sain and keep on moving on.
Select your humans
If they bring you joy in life and have meaning, keep them, if they bring you misery and have no contribution towards your life, let them go. Even if it is family, let them go there is no rule in life to keep people around whom you have set boundaries with that they just keep pushing back. Forgive them but don’t keep them. Carrying these people with you through life is a heavyweight.
Don’t judge or let people judge
Have you ever felt this way? Where the entirety of you is pulling you toward creating something you love, but you worry about what others will think of you is holding you back from taking that action?
I’ve felt this way before, and sometimes, I still do.
The truth is, the fear of external judgment and what other people think of us is one that halts us in our tracks and stops us from fully being ourselves. That fear is like a cage. As you continue to be confined by it, you will continue to resign yourself to living within its restricted walls. It will keep you trapped and you’ll carry on playing safe, both of which will inhibit you from reaching your full potential in life.
We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. So judge less, accept more, and restore your happiness.
Keep to yourself
Why you shouldn't share everything?
You might put yourself in physical danger by revealing too much to the wrong person.
You could alienate people who feel uncomfortable by the amount of personal information you share. And recounting your problems to people who don't have your best interest in mind may lead them to take advantage of you.
You may be one of those persons who always tells the truth, tells everything, always shares your history, your story with your loved ones and near friends and more, because you want to share who you are and what you have done in your life. Maybe this is your way of being intimate. Maybe it is your way of showing people the wild and crazy voyage you have had and that just maybe because of that you are an interesting person. Is this always a wise decision to spill the beans? To share everything? If you just started a new venture and you are succeeding do not share this: “work hard in silence let your success be your noise”.
Who cares what people think of you
No One Cares!
Our fears about what other people think of us are overblown and rarely worth fretting over.
Unfortunately, the instinct to want the approval of others is woefully maladapted to modern life. Where once you would have justifiably felt the terror of being expelled onto the frozen tundra, today you might suffer acute anxiety that strangers online will “cancel” you for an ill-considered remark, or passers-by will snap a photo of a poor outfit choice and mock it on Instagram for all to see. If you always leave an interaction kicking yourself over what you should have said—but didn’t—it may indicate that you are being unduly influenced by concern over what others think.
Living for yourself means living the life that YOU want for yourself, regardless of the opinions of others. It’s living a life you feel aligned with, a life you love, and a life you are proud of. Understand that your life is in your hands, and if you give away that power to anyone else, you’re taking away from your own.
To live a truly fulfilling life, you must aim to live a life you’re proud of. This includes stepping outside your comfort zone, doing things that scare you, and always doing your best.
By the way, it’s possible to be happy and grateful for the present moment, and also continue to push yourself to grow.
And as you grow in life, your standards will grow as well.
You realize it’s not about the destination. It’s about your growth, and how you expand in this process.
Living for yourself is choosing a life of responsibility, freedom and fulfilment.
You have the power to steer your life in any direction you choose. As I like to say, you are the artist of your life. Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece.
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